Host & Founder
Heather Wiese
Heather Wiese has spent twenty years helping people get the moments that matter right. Her approach isn't about perfection. It's about giving people the tools, experience, and confidence to navigate any situation with an ever-growing sense of ease and authenticity.
As founder of Bell'INVITO, which began as a Dallas design, engraving, and letterpress house, she has written the messaging behind weddings, galas and milestone celebrations, and fielded every question that comes with them. Who is invited? What do we say? What do we do when it goes wrong? Those questions became an etiquette column for PaperCity, a steady stream of invitations to speak about etiquette on local news stations across the country, and featured in nearly every fashion and luxury magazine, including Worth, Town & Country, Vogue, and Harper's Bazaar.
Social in Security is where that conversation lives now. Each week Heather takes a modern social situation (the group text, the plus-one, the graceful exit, the dinner you didn't want to host) and asks what actually works. Not rules for their own sake, but the behaviors that help people move through every room with confidence. She also talks with experts in luxury, etiquette, and social intelligence about the tools their work has taught them, so you get the inside scoop.
Your grandmother's etiquette told you where you stood. Modern etiquette tells you how to make everyone feel they belong, and how to accomplish your own goals along the way.