Speaking

The unwritten rules of every room, made teachable.

Heather Wiese brings over twenty years of etiquette and social intelligence to keynotes, workshops, and private groups. The goal is never perfection. It is giving people tools to walk into any room with confidence and leave it with the relationship impact and goals in reach.

As seen on ABC, CBS and FOX affiliates · Featured in Worth, Town & Country, Vogue and Harper's Bazaar · Former PaperCity etiquette columnist · Host, Social in Security

Topics

The Unwritten Rules of the Room

Executive presence and social intelligence for leaders: how to read a room, own an introduction and earn trust before you've said a word about business.

How to Disagree Gracefully

Feedback, pushback and the hard conversation. How to hold your position without costing anyone their dignity, including yours.

The Business Meal

Client dinners, wine, ordering, the check. The table is where deals are quietly won or lost. Here is how to make sure it's the former.

Written Presence

Emails, follow-ups and the handwritten note. Your writing arrives before you do. Make it say the right thing.

Gravitas Is the Ultimate Luxury

For luxury, hospitality and private club teams: service as a feeling, not a script, and why the details members and clients never mention are the ones they remember.

Polish for What's Next

For students, new graduates and young professionals: the interview, the first client lunch, the first networking room. Confidence, taught.

Formats

Keynote · 45–60 minutes
Workshop · 90 minutes to half day, interactive
Panel moderation & curation
Private groups · luncheons, dinners, member clubs, schools
In person or virtual

Who Books Heather

Luxury, hospitality and retail staff training · Private city and country clubs · Corporate leadership and sales teams · Conferences and associations · Schools and universities

Send an Inquiry

Book Heather

Fees on request. Share your date, audience and goals, and we will be in touch within two business days.