Elegant Wedding Planning and the Art of Restraint, with Christina Geyer Volpe

There is almost no limit anymore to what you can add to a wedding, so the interesting question is no longer what you can afford. It is what belongs. Christina Geyer Volpe spent her career as a luxury editor watching other people's events get built, then planned her own wedding in eight months. She joins Heather to talk about what she chose to leave out, how to find your visual language before you spend anything, how to hire well and then get out of the way, and the difference between an event that photographs beautifully and one people actually feel.

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What you'll learn in this episode

  • Why the real question became "does it actually belong here," and the moment Christina caught herself adding a monogram to the dance floor because everything else already had one
  • How to find your visual language before you spend anything, including cutting a five-hundred-image Pinterest board down to three, and the two or three elements that did most of the work
  • What she deliberately left out, from the videographer and content creators to the second dress and the live band, and why she would delete social media entirely if she planned again
  • How to hire well and then get out of the way, and why a high-level brief produces better work than a tight grip
  • Why they built the night as a thank-you to the room rather than a showcase, and the untraditional toast they gave in place of a grand entrance

About the guest

Christina Geyer Volpe is a former editor-in-chief of PaperCity Magazine in Dallas, with a career spent covering luxury, design, hospitality, fashion and weddings. Before PaperCity she was at the Dallas Morning News, where she helped launch its wedding publication.

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